“Then they lived happily ever
after” is a phrase used on fairy tales to put an end to the story. Best endings
are usually the ones with the happily ever after parts on them. But what people
don’t know is that best ending doesn’t just contain characters staying
together, it also means to let go of the one you love. But doesn’t it make the
story have the worst ending? Actually, no.
Being in love and loved is the
feeling everyone wants to experience. The feeling of having someone by your
side holding your hand making sure neither one of you will let go; having
someone to say those three little words. Having someone to text or talk all
night; that is expected to be with through the ups and downs of life. Isn’t it
great? Just by imagining these things, you’ll get the kilig vibes all over you.
After the sweet moments, pain is
inevitable. “When you’re in love, get ready for the pain it will cause.” To
which a lot of people respond; “Is love physical contact sport, like boxing? It
doesn’t hurt. It is sweet” We also have to consider that pain is not just
physical it is also emotionally and mentally. We may not experience physical
pain but the risk of having emotional pain is great when you’re in love.
Jealousy itself is an example of an emotional pain; you get hurt just by seeing
your loved one being too friendly to others. This pain creates gap between you
and your partner and usually ends up cutting their relationship to avoid
hurting more people.
“Letting go is essential. Try to
move on and continue with your life” but if you really love that person, fight
for what you feel. The case is what’s the point of fighting for your love when
the one you love has given up already? Move on! Doesn’t it sound so motivating?
If it’s meant to be, then it will be. For the meantime let go and move on, the
future is smiling brightly at you. Your world doesn’t just orbit around him,
this is the real world. Someone better might be there patiently waiting, but
remember what others say “Sometimes the best relationships are those who can
wait.” Continuing your life, welcoming new people entering into your life,
letting better opportunities knock into your door and being able to wait after
heartache; This right here, is one of the Best Ending ever. And we also need to
remember the words Toni Gonzaga said on what she learnt on the Movie Starting
Over Again “I realized that the reason people break up is because something is
already broken.”
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